3 May 2009

Relating to You and Others

In all relationships, being the real you and relating from that place is where solid foundations are created.

In spiritual teachings, one of the things our relationships do is reflect aspects of ourselves.

Do an inventory of all your relationships and ask your inner guidance, what can you learn about yourself from each relationship and how you relate to each person?

Self honesty and a fantastic relationship with yourself requires maturity and acceptance. Being able to look in the mirror as Louise L Hay, (You can Heal Your Life) has taught us, and say "I totally love and accept you today” can be tough to start with…

In my own experience, learning how to love is a special, wonderful journey that opens you up…it means standing on your own two feet, taking responsibility for your own happiness, health and purpose and being true to YOU first.

From that place of relating to yourself with honesty, truth and love, come the behaviours, attitudes, thoughts and feelings of acceptance for who you are. From this place the reflections, the people, places and ways of relating to every experience become enlightening.

When you accept YOU, you see the perfection in everything and everyone. You know everything from fear based thinking to pure joy passes, and is transitory in nature. Life is always in the process of evolving, creating and re-creating. When you see and know that nothing stays the same you can let go and allow that energy to flow through you, this energy is love personified in you.

May your relationship with you be loving, honest and true…and may you see in all your relationships the reflection of pure love that you are…